I had an anon comment to the last post that said "You should have said it! Every woman needs to hear those words when they are going through this! I miss her too... " Unfortunately, when I went to publish the comment, it popped up rejected. No way to undo that as far as I can find. Here is a bit "I am sorry" to "Anon," and I will try to muster the strength to say it when that happens again.